Be so fucking committed to your growth that you’re willing to say NO without guilt and YES without fear.
Tru2Day1210
Relationships and Trust
When it comes to relationships, platonic or romantic,or even blood , trust is definitely an important element. And in my knowledge, there are four types of trust, or atleast anyone you are about to trust should either be competent, caring, consistent or of a strong character.
We should however not make the mistake of expecting anyone we are about to trust to possess all the qualities, for one can only have one or two in regards to you ,the rest probably to Someone else.
A mother could give care and consistency, a good friend could give you character and competence.
To say that we shouldn’t expect our relationships or partners to be our everything to complete us,
Because even within that deep and lifelong Union, only you can be your everything.
Emotional Attachments
Whether personal or professional, hаndling emotional аttасhmеnt tеѕtѕ оnе’ѕ lеvеl of maturity аnd ѕеriоuѕnеѕѕ of their jоurnеу tоwаrd a сhоѕеn раth. Enjоу thе mоmеnts you ѕреnd with реорlе. Learn frоm thеm, lоvе thеm and tаkе саrе of them but dо nоt mаkе thеm walking sticks.
Be attached to people ,but with a detached approach, accept that you own nobody , something or someone is yours today ,tomorrow it is somebody else’s.
Enjoy people and moments when you have them ,when they leave ,accept it ,acknowledge that you can only rent your heart out like a vacant room ,but you can’t force anyone to stay ,you can only refuse occupancy.
People gеnеrаllу fear losing ѕоmеоnе due tо thеir inсараbilitу tо mоvе аhеаd in life alone. Sо, if you dаrе tо wаlk оn thе сhоѕеn раth аlоnе, уоu nо lоngеr need to оvеrсоmе еmоtiоnаl аttасhmеnt аnуmоrе.
Dealing with Manipulation
I find it manipulative that our angry side is always seen as our “true colours” as if when we are happy and being kind we are fake. You could be the nicest most charming person ever, then the second you get mad it’s like you let go of the facade and start becoming the most […]
Dealing with Manipulation
Always set the intention
If you’re unsure about what you want, you’ll end up with a lot of things you’re unsure of.
Set the Intention❗
Your intention is who you plan to be in order to act with purpose,and when setting the intentions,Vocalise what it would actually take to get what you want; live the intentions.
Being Single
I’ve been single for a while now and I have to say that it’s going very well. Like…it’s working out. I think I’m the one. My alone feels so good, I’ll only have you if you’re sweeter than my solitude, which is very rarely the case. The only fun part about being single is how […]
Being Single
My sunny Silhouettes maybee😍
##phone photography
Nature⚘🌷🌺🥀🍂
Nature doesn’t care,
It doesn’t pick sides ,
What happens to is simply a matter of cause and effect ..
You reap what you sow….
On limited time
Your time is limited,so don’t waste it living someone else’s life,
Don’t be trapped by dogma- living with the results of other people’s thinking.
Don’t let the noise of other people’s opinions drown out your inner voice,
And most important,have the courage to follow your heart and intuition,
They somehow already know what you truly want to become.
–Steve Jobs
Keep your fire Burning
Don’t allow your fire to go out,
Spark by irreplaceable spark in the hopeless swamps of the not -quite,
the not -yet and the not at all.
Do not let the hero of your soul perish in lonely frustration for the life you deserved and have never been able to reach,
the world you desire can be won,
It exists
It is real
It’s possible
It’s yours .
_Ayn Rand.
Learnwithlendy 