Relationships and Trust

When it comes to relationships, platonic or romantic,or even blood , trust is definitely an important element.  And in my knowledge, there are four types of trust, or atleast anyone you are about to trust should either be competent,  caring, consistent or of a strong character.

We should however not make the mistake of expecting anyone we are about to trust to possess all the qualities, for one can only have one or two in regards to you ,the rest probably to Someone else.

A mother could give care and consistency,  a good friend could give you character and competence.

To say that we shouldn’t expect our relationships or partners to be our everything to complete us,
Because even within that deep and lifelong Union, only you can be your everything.

Emotional Attachments

Whether personal or professional, hаndling emotional аttасhmеnt tеѕtѕ оnе’ѕ lеvеl of maturity аnd ѕеriоuѕnеѕѕ of their jоurnеу tоwаrd a сhоѕеn раth. Enjоу thе mоmеnts you ѕреnd with реорlе. Learn frоm thеm, lоvе thеm and tаkе саrе of them but dо nоt mаkе thеm walking sticks.

Be attached to people ,but with a detached approach, accept that you own nobody , something or someone is yours today ,tomorrow it is somebody else’s.

Enjoy people and moments when you have them ,when they leave ,accept it ,acknowledge that you can only rent your heart out like a vacant room ,but you can’t force anyone to stay ,you can only refuse occupancy.

People gеnеrаllу fear losing ѕоmеоnе due tо thеir inсараbilitу tо mоvе аhеаd in life alone. Sо, if you dаrе tо wаlk оn thе сhоѕеn раth аlоnе, уоu nо lоngеr need to оvеrсоmе еmоtiоnаl аttасhmеnt аnуmоrе.

Keep your fire Burning

Don’t allow your fire to go out,

Spark by irreplaceable spark in the hopeless swamps of the not -quite,

the not -yet and the not at all.

Do not let the hero of your soul perish in lonely frustration for the life you deserved and have never been able to reach,

the world you desire can be won,

It exists

It is real

It’s possible

It’s yours .




_Ayn Rand.

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